Gains and Setbacks…
…are to be expected with such serious injuries. Gabe was moved out of ICU last night into a regular medical ward. The stomach tube that went through his nose was taken out today now that things in his gut seem to be flowing in the right direction. Physical therapy was grueling again, and Gabe was able to sit up in bed, roll himself over, and put on socks by himself. Arrangements are in the works to move him to a rehab center at Community Hospital as soon as possible, where we’ve been informed he will get the serious tough love treatment, and quickly learn to be self-sufficient and get back to normal life and work.
Gabe has been running a slight fever for a few days, and is being watched closely for signs of infection. The doctors removed a staple from his surgery incision earlier that wasn’t healing properly and packed the area with some medicated gauze. Later as we were gathering for dinner we learned that the doctors were inserting a chest tube tonight to drain some fluid that was building up around his lungs. Hopefully these will both turn out to be minor setbacks. The hospital is ready to move him over to rehab as soon as he is ‘medically stable’, which basically means his fever is gone and he is on a normal diet.
I spoke to the detective who is investigating the robbery last night, and although they have little to go on he assured me they are working hard to solve the case. We are also working with Crimestoppers to put together some posters to put up in the neighborhood.
We all can’t say it enough, but thanks to everyone who has been there to support Gabe and the rest of us this past week.
Pete, thank you so much for posting on Gabe’s progress on a regular basis. Those of us that can only be there in spirit appreciate your efforts so much to let everyone know how things are going. My parents stayed with Gabe at Wishard on Saturday night, and it sounds like he is in such good, capable hands.
Gabe, Brooke, and Ezra – I love you all and look forward to seeing you at XMAS! You are constantly in my thoughts, and I am here for you always. I am still at a loss for why these things happen. I know you have a long road of recovery, but I believe in you and know you can do it!
I just got off the phone with Andrea Holom and she told me what had happened… tears welled up in my eyes. I remember when I met Gabe and Brooke in college at IU. Andrea had introduced us, so we hung out my last year. It’s hard to believe that such a tragic, unneccesary, disgusting and completely unbelievable act of violence could happen to such a wonderful person and that amazing family. I am just so happy he is alive and well, even with his paralysis. He’s alive and from the sounds of it, still being goofy! I’m really glad he has his silly wit, because that will have such a positive affect on him. Speaking of affect, each of us are affected and will grieve in different ways, so my heart, prayers, love and support go out to all those fortunate enough to know the Jordan and Frankie families. I apologize for such a late response, but my partner and I have been out of town all week until yesterday, so I was completely unaware. Gabe, I send to you many hugs and kisses. Keep that good outlook man, and you will be fine. I will pray for a quick recovery, both physical and mental. Love you. And Brookie, keep your head up and let me know if you need anything. And i mean anything. It’s been too long since I’ve seen the two of you but looks like the next time is gonna be soon… I wish under different circumstances… Love Hugs Kisses to you and your families. Talk to you soon. XOXO -Melanie Starr
Thanks for the updates. I read them everyday.
Gabe-You’ve been so positive and witty, but I want you to know that when you’re ready to cry, we’re ready to sob with you. When you’re ready to scream, we’re going to be hoarse as well. When you’re ready to punch, we’ll all have our pillows ready…and, when you’re ready to dance, our music will be blaring. We love you, Gabe. Godspeed.
Pete – thanks for the updates.
Gabe and Family – stay strong and keep working! You’ve got lots of folks pulling for your!
Regards,
Kevin Koonce and Fam
Gabe, I’m praying that you will stay strong and heal quickly — but that prayer shouldn’t be hard to answer, because as I remember, you always were strong and you never let anything hold you down. It looks like you have made an amazing life for yourself since I knew you in Bloomington. It also looks like you have a lot of friends and family surrounding you who really love you. They are in my prayers, too.
I have an 8-month old son now… I know he would be dying to see his baba! Ezra’s a beautiful baby. He will be a great source of motivation. I’m sure you’re a very proud father.
My husband and I live on the NW side — not too far from Wishard. Please let me know if you and Brooke could use some babysitting assistance or anything else at all, now or in the future. And don’t feel weird to ask! Adam would love to have a friend around, and I’m going to be spending my time watching him anyway.
Peace,
jo ellen
Glad to hear you are doing so well! When you move to Community we have a good friend who works at Hooks Rehab. She will work your butt off. Keeping you and your family in our prayers. From The chocolate lab lady and soon to be known as the soup lady.
Gabe, keep up your strength and hard work, I’m glad to hear that your recovery is moving forward. You are in our thoughts at all times, Aidan is constantly asking his 5 year-old-style questions about your situation and progress. We will all be sending our love and support from Portland.
I was shocked when I heard the news, and shocked this could happen to such a nice person and nice family! Karma is a biotch and whoever did this will get theirs, I don’t doubt that. Wishing you a quick recovery and strength in the days ahead, I read the updates everyday and you’re constantly in my thoughts. Brooke is a pillar of strength and both of your wit will keep you going at all times. Sending Love and Prayers!!
Gabe & family,
Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you during this horendous time. Words cannot describe the emotions we felt after Josh’s phone call. Please know that there are many of us out there wishing your family comfort, strength & humor in the days ahead.
Marsha & Gary Riss (Josh Tell’s mom)
Dear Gabe, Brooke, Ezra and family,
We are sending good thoughts and karma your way! Keep up the great attitude throughout your recovery.
The Sogards
p.s. we love the website and all the updates!
Gabe-We don’t know each other but when I saw the news story I realized that I know your dad. I worked with him many years ago (about 12) when I worked for MAB out of the Lafayette store. I have been following your story and have enjoyed hearing of your progress. My family and I have been praying for you and we wish you and your family the best of everything.
Gabe:
Jeff and Emily Brown send you and your family our thoughts and prayers. We will continue to pray for patience and strength over the days to come.
Dear Gabe — We’re just a downtown couple with little kids who have probably crossed paths with you and your beautiful family several times, as you seem to be just 2 degrees away with “friends of friends” knowing you personally. Words cannot begin to express our sadness — but while we certainly can’t imagine your thoughts and emotions, words also cannot begin to express our joy that you are still here with your dear family and friends. Keep the faith, dear Gabe, and know that so many people unknown to you are praying for your family and sending so much light and love your way.
Gene, Maribeth, Max & Carly Salkovsky
Gabe and Jordans, The impact of your injuries reverberates all the way to Des Moines. We are going to have to convert away from Athiesm to a major religion so we can pray more effectively for you. Sounds like you and the family are doing a great job are propping each other up. Thanks for having the site so we can keep informed. Much love and many prayers. Susan and Max
Hey Gabe,
We’re thinking of you and your family every day. Hang in there. Sending lots of good thoughts for your recovery!
Regards,
Deb and Darin Kelly (Good Life Farms — the lettuce people)
Thank you so much for these updates. I wish I could be there, but just know that lots of people in Seattle are sending positivity and prayers to Gabe and his family. All my love. xoxo
Donelle Pearson
Hey Gabe,
Sounds like progress. Good on ya!
dz
Pete- Thanks so much for the updates- they are wonderful. Gabe, keep up the good work! You are making such amazing progress. I hope you get to hug your little guy soon.
Cassie
Dear Gabe,
Although we don’t really know each other, my family & I have been following your story closely and sending you lots of positive energy. As everyone has already mentioned, this random, senseless act of violence that you endured is almost incomprehensible. This site is wonderful, and is a testament to the amazing support system of your beautiful family, friends, peers of this incredible Indy food community, and even strangers. I was one of your regulars back at H20 and by my third visit you knew me as “the soy paper & Pellegrino with lime lady”. I never had to ask: you were the perfect server. My husband & I have also crossed paths with you while frequenting The Goose, and have been looking forward to the opening of Recess. We are confident that we will see you there after a full and healthy recovery. We wish you great strength, perserverance, and a good sense of humor to help get you through these days. All of our best to you and your family Gabe!
Peace,
Alexandra, Michael & Ian Ridgway
Red’s Classic Barbershop Co.
We both continue to read the website to hear about your updates. Recovery sounds as if it is continues and we wish the family good health, good spirits. Again, I made an offer earlier and it’s your for the asking.
Have a good week
Hey Gabe,
I have never met you but you know my co-worker John Beeler. I have been following your story via folks who know you and now this blog. I wanted to share with you that our family is praying for you that not only will you have a continued and quick recovery, but that this event can be used for great things in your and others lives. As someone who almost lost an infant a few days after birth, and now raising that same child who has life long challenges and special needs I know with all my heart that tragedy and heartache can be transformed into beauty and joy.
Gabe,
Bob looks like a really nice guy… Brings new meaning to heavy breathing. Keep using your incentive spirometer (Bob). Hang in there keep up the good work.